Sashtanga Danda Pranamalu to Swamiji,
Swamiji,In general, control of anger, rage and irritation are very important for marital happiness and for good social contact. I would be highly obliged, if Swamiji may bless us withe some techniques and processes to be able to achieve
to improve control over these unwanted qualities. I feel ashamed ,sometimes, that I do not have enough “satvik” to gain control over those. adiyen Ramanuja dasa.
THAT IS GOOD YOU HAVE REALIZED THAT YOU ARE IN THE POSSESSION OF THOSE QUALITIES WHICH ARE BAD. THIS IS STEP ONE. WHENEVER YOU KNOW SOME BAD IS WITH YOU, YOU ALWAYS TRY TO ELIMINATE IT. IF NOT IN PRIVACY, ATLEAST IN THE PUBLIC. THEN 2ND STEP STARTS. IF YOU HAVE BOSS IN THE OFFICE AND YOU ARE ONE AMONG MANY EMPLOYEES
IN HIS OFFICE. AND IF ONE CO-WORKER DID SOMETHING WRONG, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO FIRE HIM OR SHOWING A BURNING EYES TO HIM. BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THE DECISSION MAKER OVER HIM. YOU RATHER CONTROL YOUR FEELING AND TRY TO BE GOOD WITH HIM TOO. HERE IS THE SOLUTION. WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE THE BOSS, YOU TRY TO SHOW ANGER
ON ANYONE. OTHERWISE, YOU TRY TO TELL THEM NICELY. THIS STEP MAY BE TRIED FOR SOME TIME AND OBSERVE THE RESULT. THERE ARE MANY MORE STEPS OF COURSE, WHICH CANNOT BE DOWNLOADED FREE.