Think about each one of these attributes with keen attention. It’s not easy to have these attributes unless you are truly and completely dedicated in love. How many times have we fought with our loved ones? No matter how much we think we love them, there are times when we lack patience in our conduct, softness in our words, purity in thought, become narrow-minded, create a difficult environment for them to live in, be very demanding, unaccommodating, arrogant or angry etc. This is only an example to understand what it takes to have all those five qualities every second of our lifetime when serving God.